F.E.A.R asked:
some problems were , my parents who didn’t get along with my girlfriend , another was transportation but i have that one completed , another was not a good job but i have that problem covered , but me and my ex are having troubles with so called goin to fast , she wants to not have the title of a girlfreind but she still loves me , its like we are dating but not girlfriend and boyfreind , what should i do . or what would make this relationship work out ?
some problems were , my parents who didn’t get along with my girlfriend , another was transportation but i have that one completed , another was not a good job but i have that problem covered , but me and my ex are having troubles with so called goin to fast , she wants to not have the title of a girlfreind but she still loves me , its like we are dating but not girlfriend and boyfreind , what should i do . or what would make this relationship work out ?
Author:
November 17th, 2008 at 9:13 am
sounds like a friends with benefit sort of relationship, well if i were u i would be friends with her first if she thinks it’s going too fast and she doesn’t wanna be your girlfriend. otherwise if u play by her rules, that means technically she can be with others while being with u too cos ur not dating and i don’t think ur okay with that?..anyways be her friend and make her want you.
November 17th, 2008 at 3:20 pm
go at the pace she wants to set. if she wants to date slow, that’s a good idea so you can get to know each other and see the changes that each of you has made. Once you do that, you’ll know if it is a good idea to renew your relationship.
November 23rd, 2008 at 2:01 pm
you have two options, first , tell her what you feel ,
second tell her sorry and just move on,
because she sounds confused and un-certain as to waht she want.
November 23rd, 2008 at 10:25 pm
Taking it a bit slow is OK. she doesn’t have an excuse to get angry if you meet another lady and you want to date another.